Originally Posted By: Brit45
I'm also trying to teach myself not to define myself by my R. That part of my life isn't my whole life. I need to figure out how to be Me and that me will be the same me in M, in a R, or on my own.


I love this Brit!

I avoided going walking outside my house much the first few months of this bc I did not want to see any neighbours...I felt ashamed...that I had been left meant that everyone would know that something was wrong with me.

Now I do not feel that way, I am ME, regardless of what W does or does not do, M or not..

We here are on a journey to learn how to find happiness within ourselves, realizing that it can not come through anyone else... able to be happy no matter what anyone else does.. we are GROWING! smile


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13