Her H will not be the person she wants to be with so she does not need to look at how she was in the M and how she can work on herself.
And by that, I mean outside of the M.
CV claims to be a great person. I'm sure she is.
That being the case, how is she a great person outside the M and yet can't seem to be that great person INSIDE the M?
It MUST be something to do with her H? (THAT is sarcasm)
CV is quite possibly able to be a great person outside the M because she can remove herself from the company of people who rub her the wrong way.
Rather than removing her H from her life because he rubs her the wrong way, she can remain a victim by staying in the M and continuing to focus on how he's a bad person.
Rather than making a tough choice and doing...
Either do the introspective work and see and fix/resolve her own issues...
or removing her H from her life and stop complaining about him...
