One note on our convo. My W was very upbeat and positive when I talked to her. DB'ing says to be upbeat and positive around your wayward W or H. It has its merits both ways. I can tell you that when she's upbeat and positive to me, it really does make a difference. I am more inclined to want to talk to her and/or be around her. If I do this with NO expectations, I'm in a good place.
If you can figure out the expectations thing.. let me know.
Enjoy vacation!
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
