This might be last chance??

[MrBond]

"Why can marriage and family be one of the things that makes us happy."

There's nothing wrong with this. But it has to make BOTH people happy. Don't you get it?

I guess I didn't realize until now how self-centered your posts are. All you've written about is your happiness and how your W not being there messes it up. You call her a liar and accuse her of things. The biggest thing you're missing is compassion. You're not REALLY thinking about things from her POV. You can only focus on the negative and not think from a compassionate view why she's doing what she's doing.

Even when you say that you can help her be happy if she comes back, etc. In the end it's all to only make YOU happy. Well she's not happy and that's that.

So you don't have a W and family right now. Deal with that fact. Then you can move on to what to do next and see what the next thing is that makes you happy.

Again, you're choosing to stay in the hole and refuse to look up for a way out.

Rinse, repeat