I am definately not sitting here waiting for her...I realized that would be foolish long ago, and I appreciate you pointing that out, pic.
I am moving on with my life, to be sure, and realize she has to work out her own demons and game plan. I realize the probability of R with her is about as close to zero as you can get. That is my little glimpse of reality - sad, but true.
[i]"There are only three courses of action: pursuit, quit, or something in the middle"/i]
I know enough not to pursue, and am not ready to quit, so I am struggling on how to interact. Yes, it bothers me when she does not bother to contact me, particularly after her recent visit, but I will get over it. Guess I am feeling a bit in limbo land here, not knowing which way to go.
I truly appreciate everyone's comments and support. I am struggling on h
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012