Thanks for the thoughts, folks.

I am definately not sitting here waiting for her...I realized that would be foolish long ago, and I appreciate you pointing that out, pic.

I am moving on with my life, to be sure, and realize she has to work out her own demons and game plan. I realize the probability of R with her is about as close to zero as you can get. That is my little glimpse of reality - sad, but true.


[i]"There are only three courses of action: pursuit, quit, or something in the middle"/i]

I know enough not to pursue, and am not ready to quit, so I am struggling on how to interact. Yes, it bothers me when she does not bother to contact me, particularly after her recent visit, but I will get over it. Guess I am feeling a bit in limbo land here, not knowing which way to go.

I truly appreciate everyone's comments and support.
I am struggling on h


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012