Poor baby! Must have thought the boogie man was flushing the toilet. LOL! I had a good chuckle over your posting. I'm glad you both could laugh about it and hope your evening was a pleasant one.
The interactions that you are having w/your h are cordial and/or civil and that's far better than having him acting like a wild child w/a temper tantrum.
Enjoy your weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.