well, we say here that it ain't over 'til it's over...
Even IF the two of you D, there's evidence that people who D remarry...
Just keep on the path of DB. Dark as possible, GAL, improving yourself through 180s and otherwise...
Just keep becoming a better you... and no matter what happens, you... will be better...
If your W wants the D, the best advice is to let her do all the leg work... only do what you need to do, when you need to do it... if you fight it, it will likely only make it worse...
For example: Any time you are asked for a response with a due date, respond... but only by the due date... and keep everything regarding the D in the hands of the Ls... none of that should be discussed between the two of you if possible.
