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Oh and then about 1/2 hour after leaves he calls AGAIN!! Leaves a message for me to call him. Seriously dude!!! What is your deal?!?!?!?

I think I will leave the wash in the washer for a while. Perhaps it will get nice and moldy. I think it is all whites so I could throw a red or purple towel in with them and re-wash them in hot with some bleach so everything turns pink.


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Why are you doing his wash? I agree with putting the wet clothes in a bag and having his GF dry them.


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I didnt do his wash. He did. He left it in the washer and be asked me to put it in the dryer for him. I stopped doing his wash long ago. I got fired from that job. I have, on occasion, when I am feeling nice, taken his clothes out ofthe dryer and folded them for him. But tonight I am not feeling nice.


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I support you in not feeling nice. Just as long as it doesn't make the washing machine smell gross after he takes his own laundry out of there.

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I have washing machine cleaner that does the trick for that. No worries . : )

I also made him give me all his cash. Wasn't much but he did it.


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Okay last post in this thread. Then I think I am going to start posting in MLC.

Pray for me. I am at S's soccer tournament in a hotel room with the kids and H. Awkward. And OW has called several times. Ticks me off but I am acting "as if" and happy. Wore my new swimsuit out to the pool and knocked some socks off. H noticed but of course pretended not to. But I know be was drawn in. He kept glancing in my direction. I ate it up and acted like the cool chick in high school who could care less. He even came over to where I was sitting in the hit tub. When OW called he left the room and was gone for a while. So I took action grabbed my phone called a friend and talked outside the room myself. When I came back he was looking for me. : )

I have been joking around and being playful and nice. He even mentioned how he bought beer in plastic bottles so we could take them by the pool and I told him that was good thinking. He replied "even a blind squirrel finds a nut every once in a while."

So wish me luck. I have a great chance to do 180s and act as if. If anything I know H is attracted whether he admits it or not.


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You go girl!


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PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
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Good luck!! smile

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God bless you, be strong and try to have fun.

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