Update -- I took Bond's advice and let my daughter decide whether she wanted to see her stepdad. She said she did. So I said he could come to her next basketball game. I've been totally dark but he's texted several times asking where certain things were and asking again when the game was. Finally got the details and texted him. He came, had a good time, and the three of us went to dinner afterwards together. Affter my daughter walked off to go text her friends, H said that he was confused but didn't want to lead me on, still loved me, had been totally faithful, but didn't really know how to proceed. I had to go because my daughter was getting antsy off in the corner (she was clearly trying to give us space) and he said he would like to get together soon to continue our discussion about our relationship status. When I got in the car he told SD how much he loved her and then walked me to my car door and kissed me suggestively. We are supposed to meet up tomorrow afternoon to continue our discussion about where to take our relationship. He knows i dont want a divorce and i got the sense that he is open to some sort of reconciliation or else he wouldve just said he was done and there would be nothing to really discuss. Any thoughts on how I should handle this, please help?
