So to follow on from my last post. W goes away for the weekend and we part on unfriendly terms after the blow up over guys. Anyway this morning after she has been away for one night I get a text from one of my female friends who is a facebook friend of hers and she has been a person I talk to a lot about what is going on. The text says that W is now facebook friends with the guy the sister was trying to set her up with. Now looking back I know that means nothing and when DBing I should not care but I am not at that point yet, not by a long way. Detaching is really hard for me. So I of course text W and say I see you made a new friend. She of course reacts angrily and lies saying he is a PT of her sister which he is not and the texting goes back and forth getting angrier and angrier. Again all I have done is push her further away and perhaps pshed into this morons arms. She will also come back with a renewed conviction to leave. STUPID STUPID. Why cant I stop myelf from contacting her.
I am GAL where I can, like tonight I am having my mates over for drinks etc but detaching is so hard. Can anyone give me some advice on how to let her go
