"Look her square in the eye and tell her. "I haven't stopped you. I don't agree with D and you should respect my decision. You want a D and I've respected that. If that is what you want, then you will have to take care of the paperwork. Why should I do something that I don't want to do? That will be you trying to control me. Now excuse me, I'm here to see my D."
That's great... Whether it is on phone, text, or in person on Monday, I know it will come up at some point. She doesn't really push it, but will want to figure things out. Maybe it's just me "overthinking", but I think the quicker she would get what she wants, she won't feel as guilty. Just my opinion. She knows my stance on D and has said her L won't draw papers up and send them to me if I'm not going to sign. She knows that I would wait the 2 years for courts to make it go through.
