One step closer to the edge and I'm about to break

[Fightfire00]

thank you all for your advice... I have been doing the Last Resort tactic for about a week... with one slip up telling her I missed her looking for comfort after finding out my mom broke her leg for the third time in a year and was going to require a third surgery... as you said, I got no response... just got off the phone checking on my boys and telling them goodnight... they seem to be doing fine... as far as visitation, because of our work schedules, she is relying on me to be her primary child care, which I am fine with... I will keep the boys with me as often as she will let me... was extremely difficult, but I kept convo light, and happy, didn't ask her a thing about her day, just kept it about kids and what time I could get them tomorrow... she actually asked about MY day and how I'm feeling (been sick with sinuses) and asked about my day tomorrow... and on top of it all apologized for leaving the house a wreck and offered to come clean it... (I declined and told her I could take care of it... I hope that I'm doing this right... hoping to schedule a phone call with DB coach next week to make sure I'm on track...

as far as what I'll be hearing, I have already gotten the "I Love you as the father of my kids, but I don't LOVE you"

and I've also been told "I just want to be your friend"

which I feel is my IN to winning her back... I hope/pray/believe that this can be fixed... just going to take time... will keep you all updated... thanks for the support....