CTH...man I'm gonna share something with you that 25 told me...she said "It's mandatory that you create and embrace happiness in your future no matter what she does. KNOW THIS is a strength, not a weakness in you.
Do you think she would be attracted to someone who is miserable because they're pining for someone?
Or do you think she would be attracted to someone who is happy and enjoying life?"
.....the same things are unattractive and attractive to others too!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.