This might be last chance??

[MrBond]

"I still don't know how to react when she tells me she wants to end this and it's over."

Say this...I understand how you feel and I respect it. And right now I'm interested in the relationship with SD.

When she says "Well why don't you give me what I want?"

Look her square in the eye and tell her. "I haven't stopped you. I don't agree with D and you should respect my decision. You want a D and I've respected that. If that is what you want, then you will have to take care of the paperwork. Why should I do something that I don't want to do? That will be you trying to control me. Now excuse me, I'm here to see my D."

You have to show no fear. WASs can sense when there's fear.