My H texted yesterday to say he was going into a minor surgery for his back and would call when out.

I told him God willing it all goes well. And let me know when u can call so I can have the kids available.

This is after more than two weeks of darkness - OW/PA etc. and hom being MIA for more than 2 weeks.

I have not contacted him since the text about his minir surgery neither has he.

Am I being too dark but not sending a follow up text asking how it went? Trying to remain dark and also he said he would call. So why push it?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home