So I was a WAW or whatever. The best thing you can do and I'm sure everyone is telling you this is to STEP BACK and GIVE SPACE. You want her to think of you as happy, fun, confident, stable, loving. Not angry, vengeful, disrespectful, hurt, full of blame and guilt. If you are angry or you demand answers from her or you bombard her with texts and questions you'll only push her away. It will require superhuman strength. It will require you being unselfish and putting aside your own pain about the situation. not everyone can do.
