I like how you're able to speak to your W about "having trouble detaching today", but I don't have that kind of dialog right now. My gut tells me it's not the best approach for me, that she just wants me to leave her alone to sort herself out.
Go with your gut if you are sure your ego is out of the way, because that is when we are guided by God or Spirit or... That was the case for me when I finally opened the cage door for my W and said "Then. Leave." after being threatened with that by her so many times.
That is a benefit of this awful LBS process...you finally get to get in touch with yourself, your spirituality, your "true self".
Just my thoughts...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm