You know your worst case..respite might not be that bad ( If its available in your area) Just so U can regroup.rest Sit quietly and determine your next step
A lady ( I'm using that term lightly ) like the one you are describing is gonna come at U like a Tornado once U start pushing her. Stand your ground Barb......Your the Mom.....U know whats best for Ryan, U , and your family.
And yes i do remember the butt dialing episode.....too bad U didnt have a recorder...hmmm
THIS would not fly in Michigan or Florida.........