As you said, things have moved in a much more positive direction just over the past month. Focus on those and keep at it one step at a time. Next month will be even better than this month and so on....
As is this:
Originally Posted By: zig
in other words, you want actions from her instead of words. it's too much too soon. i would say, let her go on this trip, just back off and let the small little good things happen, let her gain more and more confidence in being with you - a month is no time at all, after all that's taken place.
she needs lots and lots of repeated reassurances that being with you is non-threatening, non-confrontational, before she can take these sorts of steps. so if you push things like counseling etc right now when it's so fragile, it may make her pull back hard even though she doesn't really want to.
it's really hard - but you said you were up for it - now be up for it - this is what it is about
ces, I think at this point you need to keep repeating in your head "slow and steady". You really are doing great. We think DBing is hard. I think piecing is really when the hard work starts.
