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True Bug, it didn't make sense to start now knowing she is going to be gone. However, it would be a good time to get some appointments on the calendar ready for when she comes back.

I will bring it up. We had done counseling over a year ago. But W really didn't take part. She showed up but didn't really engage. Our MC told us that it was like taking piano lessons but not practicing between lessons. Basically W ended up saying she felt pressured to attend MC but didn't really want to so we cancelled all remaining sessions.

So my point now is, don't do it if you really don't want to because it will just repeat the history of what frustrated us both...Her going to MC she didn't want to and me attending and hoping for progress that wasn't going to happen. I want her to be sure she is ready for it and to know that I am supporting her decision.

But we are in a different place now than a year ago and since W is saying she is looking for a place to start, I feel more comfortable offering this as an option.