I'm curious, if she has said she wants to, why don't you set up the appt?

But now she's leaving for 6 wks and that opportunity it lost for now.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss