Thanks Vera - it's one of those things I should have seen coming, just didn't.

H turned up yesterday in tears wanting to talk. Apparently it's been on and off since I moved out. He thought that, because he thought everything was wrong with me and him, that it would be right with someone else. He realised it wasn't, and that actually me and him had everything going for us. He was blaming me for everything, when actually he needed to look at himself.

He says he ended it with her before I