Also, just to add a point, W had actually suggested going to counseling a few weeks back during one of our initial big conversations. I had been the one to suggest that she really be ready for it and not feel forced to go. Since then she's not made any steps to go to counseling.

Also, several weeks ago, she had asked for a list of counselors on our insurance so she could start IC after some obvious money issues. I provided the list but she never set anything up for herself on that either. Hmmmm.


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms