Even though this was both of our 1st marriages, my W's last 3 or 4 R ended with her doing almost the same thing. I did know this from the beginning, but thought that it wasn't her fault, that there was a valid reason for her wanting out. So I just assumed she found what she was looking for an took the next step and married me because she realized I was the one.
Now she is telling me that this is no big deal, we have only been together for a little over two years, and that I will get over it. Its as if she is treating this as just another bad R that can end w/o giving it much thought.
