I feel as if he is cake eating ie coming to your house to play video games and such. He should take s to his apartment. Nothing to do there? Sorry that is part of what he is wanting. Divorce is rough especially on those who haven't thought it true. Best introduce him to that world sooner than later. It might help your cause.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory