oh, btw, I also read that women tend to need a lot more time to believe changes are real than men typically do...so when you and I are thinking "see, its been months, they are real"...they might be thinking "hmm....not sure yet"...learning this helped a lot with the patience that I so needed.
I agree. I also think it has something to do with the ammount of time it took them to reach a decision....months...years...
And once that decision is made? A hard one? once committed to it, it is har to go back on it.
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