Step 1 = W not moving out Step 2 = slowly re-connecting/piecing, etc
and so forth...
What is your best of all possible outcomes, for you? Then, how do you get there? How do you measure progress? How do you show you're the kind of person only a fool would leave? What is your (very flexible) plan?
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I like how you're able to speak to your W about "having trouble detaching today", but I don't have that kind of dialog right now.
I didn't either, but I did it anyway...it showed confidence to be honest and forthcoming with feelings...one of those 180's for me, being open with feelings. W has verified recently that it was a positive, though she didn't like it at first...
oh, btw, I also read that women tend to need a lot more time to believe changes are real than men typically do...so when you and I are thinking "see, its been months, they are real"...they might be thinking "hmm....not sure yet"...learning this helped a lot with the patience that I so needed.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm