My husband is away for the next 9 weeks (with work) but comes home at weekends. I have decided not to call or text him and it seems to be working. He has been in touch regularly! Last weekend was good, we went to the cinema, out on a boat trip and coasteering (where you jump off cliffs and swim in caves) We also went on a night out together...just the 2 of us (something which we rarely usually do) I have to admit that he seems to be making an effort but I'm worried that I'll jinx things by writing that! We head up to see both sets of parents this weekend. It will be the first time that he will have seen them since the cheating. They all know what happened so I'm impressed that he's suggested visiting them. Will keep updating my posts on here. Writing things down really is helping.