"I have read up on alcoholism and depression,"

Rather than reading about it, talk to someone about it. That will give you better insight. Your W hiding it when your in-laws are there is typical. And besides, cutting back doesn't mean that she's cured.

You don't have to be the one that leaves. Just tell her what you are planning to do. What is your plan?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER