Last night got a little messy. My STBXH got home from work before we left for dinner. And my granddaughters started begging and pleading for "Papa" to come along. Not helped by "Papa" saying like a child: "Well I guess I'll go out to dinner, too."
To which I answered: "I don't care what you do. Just tell me if you plan to go out so I don't cook food for you."
I was meeting my friends for dinner, and none of them care to hang out with him any more. I really didn't want him along, either. He has turned his back on our former friends. And tho I find it hurtful, I can't change what has gone on.
It actually was one of those nights where I would have been just as happy to stay at home. My friend is a great gal. But she always invites everyone she can think of when we do things. So there are many people there and not always folks I care to spend time with.
My friend tells me I am the bossy older sister type. That may or may not be true. But I do know in her group of friends the bossy type prevails. There were 3 different people telling my older granddaughter how to eat, drink, walk and talk. I finally told them all that her father was sitting right there and that I thought it would be nice if everyone let him correct her. She is little, almost 5.
Anyway, I work up tired today. I need to get lots done, so enough playing around!
Hope everyone has wonderful days!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!