This might be last chance??

[LostIn407]

Some people see a D as an end. Once it is done, it is like a death to them. They can only rebuild after it happens.

Does your W honestly deep down want a D, or does she not know what she wants so she believes a D will force her to move on?

In my situation, my W never said she wanted a D. She said she wanted time. She has told numerous people she sees us together. She has told me this. However, her actions don't match what I would think someone would do if they knew deep down the right path.

If I pressed for a D, I believe my W would follow along. Do I think she wants it? No. Do I think she would follow along because she still loves me and doesn't want me to hurt anymore because she hasn't had enough time to process what she wants? Yes.

My W wants space. As hard as it is, with all the mistakes I have made, I am finally giving her space.

If we get back together, if we don't, I am concentrating on GAL right now so no matter what happens, I will be a better person at the end.