I know there's a section in the book that talks about giving the ultimatum but having to be ready to give it, because you have to follow through with it, otherwise, all respect will be lost.

I can tell you that I am miserable. I do want to give H more time to really allow him to show his true colors. He did tell me he wanted more time. I will give it, but like I said, I think only another month is the most I can do.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.