I'm sure "Why" is one of the first questions they would ask. Why can't you stay together, why are you doing this? And that's where I have the most trouble.
The other questions, those that focus on the kids and their needs and what will happen to them, seem like they would be easier to answer without emotion getting in the way of communication.
Do they really not ask why in that first conversation? Or did you focus them back on them, maybe saying "we can't explain why but what's important is for you to know...."?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
