I'm going to be very honest here. I used to do that and then would be disappointed/hurt when there was no response.

Then I'd go through that whole cycle, then several days later I'd send another one. The cycle would begin again and I could never leave it on an up note.

Only do that if you can be completely without expectation about it. It's just too painful.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss