Hey Trusting,
I very rarely post on DB now - much more of a 'lurker' nowadays!

My exH married his OW last June - the invites went out before the divorce was final and they were accompanied by a 3 page letter of justification as to how awful his life was living with me!! Ho hum.

The wedding reception was held in a marquee in his Father's back garden (needless to say I broke contact with the In Laws). One year on (almost) and he still has those shark eyes, I still have debt collectors coming to my door looking for him, and he still lying through his teeth at every turn.

I am in a great place, busy and being the best version of me that I can .....whilst still delaing with a NOW exH who is in MLC. The day he married was a turning point in my healing - my home was filled with joy and laughter (and singing into wooden spoons until 4pm in the kitchen. My friends, some from RL and some LBS helped me 'celebrate' and I realsied how much I was truly loved ...for being me.

I think you are doing very well indeed to navigate all of this with such dignity and grace.

lalxx


Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011