Hey Trusting, I very rarely post on DB now - much more of a 'lurker' nowadays!
My exH married his OW last June - the invites went out before the divorce was final and they were accompanied by a 3 page letter of justification as to how awful his life was living with me!! Ho hum.
The wedding reception was held in a marquee in his Father's back garden (needless to say I broke contact with the In Laws). One year on (almost) and he still has those shark eyes, I still have debt collectors coming to my door looking for him, and he still lying through his teeth at every turn.
I am in a great place, busy and being the best version of me that I can .....whilst still delaing with a NOW exH who is in MLC. The day he married was a turning point in my healing - my home was filled with joy and laughter (and singing into wooden spoons until 4pm in the kitchen. My friends, some from RL and some LBS helped me 'celebrate' and I realsied how much I was truly loved ...for being me.
I think you are doing very well indeed to navigate all of this with such dignity and grace.
lalxx
Choose Life Me: 45 Him: 44 S:11 D:8 Met in 1992 Married in 1995 Bomb drop September 30th 2009 Divorce final April 16th 2011 exH Marries OW June 17th 2011