AD I think acknowledging that u were angry is HUGE. I also believe that what is happening to u is part of the process. I think u are making a list of what u want but it is not clear to u yet. I've done the same. With the kids I was saying to let him start and lead and u interject when needed. I don't know if there is a right or Wrong way to tell kids that their parents are divorcing. No one wins in this instance.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”