Originally Posted By: bustingout


I think what I find a bit hard sometimes as we continue to let go, detach, is conflicting feelings of wanting to keep the M together and the family together but learning to GAL without H. It sometimes feels like bring pulled in two direcvtions.



I feel the very same way. I very much feel torn ALL the time.

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.