Hey Tad! Good to hear from you again.

I think much good advice has been given here so I won't repeat it all. But one thing that sticks out: do you really think FB is the way to profess your love and happiness? Ha. I doubt it.

Can I tell you something Tad? I know my ex is about to get remarried. She can't wait (sic). Why do I know? Because it affects my kids. My son has been "off" lately and now I know why. My daughter wants to talk to me via her counselor (she hasn't spoken to me except to spew in over a year). Now I know why.

Know what? I'm secretly happy for her. I'm happier for me and my kids. Know what else? She recently told me how she is angry at me that I kept the house. LOL. Happy? If that's her idea of happiness, I'm even more glad she's gone than before. I can't live like that and won't.

In your case Tad, you don't know she's happy. Maybe she is and maybe she is trying to hurt you. Maybe it's part of the fuelling the fire. A child like way to get your attention. Don't let it bother you, Tad. You wouldn't be happy with her as it is, so let her go. Focus back on what matters - you.

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
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"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."