Then this is what I would suggest. Since he comes over, have his favorite dessert in the fridge. When he comes over, take some out and say that you were going to have some and if he wants some. Start doing little things like that here and there.

If you really want to push the envelope, rather than just kissing him on the cheek, lean in kiss him on the ear and whisper something flattering. Something like, "I just wanted you to know that I respect the way you ...." And then smile and turn away.

The two things men value the most are physical affection and the feeling of being respected. I'm sure that's how it was in the beginning when you two met and over the years it's really easy to forget that.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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