I have no idea how long you were together, married, etc. and if you were prepared in any way for the divorce or if it came as a shock?? Time, time, time to learn to be alone and whole again before even thinking about a relationship. Right now, the love must come from within and you must have the greatest love affair of all...with YOU! Then, and only then, will you be ready for another relationship.
I agree with kml; move to a coffee date quickly. Stay away from the 'fairy tale' online romance...
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10