Trusting: This OW sounds worse than many. I mean, some of them are vulnerable losers who are just weak. This one sounds as if she is out to hurt you, for whatever reason.

What did you say to your D about this comment?

Also, here is something I learned from New Guy. Give your attention and time to things that you love. Your kids. Your passions. Your family and friends. Do not give time to things and people whose energy you do not want and need.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D