AD my W told my D when this happened. Without me knowing what she told her. But that is how she roles. Let him plan the whole speech. Let him answer their question. All u can say is that u love them and that they will be safe. The wanting to be on the record well, thats the wanting to be right. Your kids will know the truth when the time is right. We can't protect our kids from divorce. Some will do better than others but every kid will be affected from a divorce.
I am kind of accepting my stich. Making some peace with it. The not wanting to make this easy on him smells a bit like anger or wanting to get even. Let life be his teacher. You know I'm in your corner
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”