Have you written a list of all these things? Maybe he was embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it with you. Have you tried flirting with him a little during this period?
From his POV, why would he want to stay married in your eyes? And I'm not talking about the fact that you were together for so long. I mean what would make him want to be with you if you don't talk on a meaningful level and don't initiate sex?
Do you know what his LL are? What are yours?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
