When my wife decided to come back? I held her to task, she also had to prove it to me, I knew there were going to be stumbling points. I couldn't be inflexible on every issue I had.
I am not saying it was ok for her to keep sleeping with OM or even call him, but I understood that he would call her, and she would have no control over that. Even after she told him not too. In those cases? Getting upset at her for that...that was my bad.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
