Oh no...rules are needed. Boundaries ARE needed.

hard to explain, I don't really know you and I do not want to come across as thinking I know everything or hell man even upsetting you.

I see those boundaries and I agree with them...

But they feel... different; they feel brittle and sharp.


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The past marriage did not work, due also to my passiveness, and I refuse to make the same mistakes again (as much as I am able).


It is possilbe to go too far in the other direction as well.


My job as far as I am concerned is to make you think, not tell you what to do. If this is not a concern on your part...then I'm dead wrong right? Not the first time either.

Just my feeling I got from reading your list...a list which I again agree with...which makes this concern seem weird..



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