Yah, Ad. The more I think about it the more I think it is a bad idea at the moment. I could sure use the distraction, though - but it is fundamentally selfish to use another person in that capacity if expectations are not set up front. And let's be realistic - in my dempographic there are SOME women that just want to go out casually, but most that I know are looking for something more "material" and I don't know if I can offer that right now.