Keep in mind that while in mlc, they tend to be the exact opposite of who they were prior to mlc. Also, even though he is their father, he may be "mentally" at their respective ages right now. The "Disney" parent always likes to do fun things that require to real responsibility because everything they do is fun. The problem with this is that when they return to you, you are the one that has to discipline and deal w/the fallout of no discipline while visiting the mlcer.
Listen, there is no need for apologies...we all have been there and understand. This is the safest place to come and vent, so feel comfortable in venting. We all understand.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
