a few weeks ago, my closest friend who is helping and supporting me in my DB'ing, said to me so very sweetly - "zig, now it's just time to forget about him for a while and just fall in love with yourself"
it surprised me - but i do that now everyday - if i look in the mirror i tell myself how beautiful i am, literally.i know it's goofy - but i literally smile sweetly at myself and think how lovely i am.
heck if no one ELSE is saying that to me, then i have to for myself, right
it's a wonderful feeling and we really are worth it aren't we?
i'm glad your'e at that spot now, brit -
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"