TM, You've done everything that you can to ensure that what you are doing will not create additional issues w/the divorce. Your wife is homeless as of Friday and needs a place to stay. I agree w/your lawyer, type up the boundaries, both of you sign and date them and then provide copies to your lawyer. Your wife will then understand that this is the way it is going to be.
I hope that you have a strong constitution, because I do think that at some point, she may try to get in bed w/you...I hope that I am wrong on that, but there's something about the way she has gone about this whole situation in the last few days that raises red flags for me.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
