Beatrice, I agree with you wholeheartedly. It does not matter to my ex what kind of attention he gets, negative or positive. He wants some type of response. It took me a while to figure this out. I must be a slow learner. I really believe he is very disappointed in me not acknowledging his up and coming nuptuals.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11